But I think it's good to pray in different ways at different times, and the Lord's Prayer isn't the only prayer in the Bible. For one thing, God has given us a whole book of prayers, Psalms. Over time I have used more and more psalms as guides when I lead prayers. I started with Psalm 13, which has a simple pattern of lament, request, praise. I would read a couple verses of the psalm and then offer some of my own prayers of lament, request, and praise. Eventually I branched out to use a few other psalms, like 25, 27, and 42. I wouldn't always use every verse of the psalm, but I would read two or three verses to set a direction and then offer some related prayers of trust, thanksgiving, request, and so on.
Lately I've found myself reading Psalms in my personal devotions. I continue to marvel at the wide variety of emotions and tones captured in these prayers. So I've been trying a new approach to praying with the psalms. Lately I've been taking a psalm like 3, 5, or 9 and, without reading any of the verses, using its structure to organize my prayers. Sometimes I'll borrow some language or imagery, but my use of these psalms has been a little bit looser. I've found that starting with different psalms has helped me think about different things I can pray about (and sometimes different ways I can pray about those things). I've also noticed how often the psalm-writers express their trust in God while praying, so I've been trying to do more of that myself. Even after praying for several years now, I feel like I'm always learning more and more about how to pray. I'm glad God gave us Psalms to teach us.
Grace and peace,
BMH